Underlying every successful relationship is trust. Without it, people become suspicious, non-committal, uncaring, undermining and jaded?all of which leads to deteriorated and nonproductive relationships. This further leads to un-pleasant work environments, disgruntled workers, frustrated customers, dejected leaders and unprofitable organizations. As a member of a virtual team, establishing unwavering trust in relationships with colleagues and your boss is particularly vital since distance and the absence of day-to-day interactions can create pressure on relationships that will erode trust.
The fundamental ingredients of trust in the working relationships critical to your success include reliability, integrity, and familiarity. Knowing how these factors affect trust and how your behavior affects perceptions and beliefs is important to your success when working at a distance from other team members.
RELIABILITY
Reliability means people have confidence that you will honor the commitments you make. A good rule of thumb here: under-commit and over-deliver. Remember:
Be available to people when you work remotely by establishing your office work hours and maintaining those routinely.
When you can't be available, follow-up promptly.
When you've scheduled time for a specific phone call or videoconference, show up.
INTEGRITY
Integrity is vital to trust since it reflects how people perceive your ability to be honest in your dealings, truthful in your encounters and respectful of the rights of others. Remember:
Be honest in everything you do.
Avoid sarcasm, joking and teasing in your distance interactions to avoid misinterpretation of your intent.
Maintain confidences and handle sensitive material appropriately.
FAMILIARITY
Current research on virtual teams indicates that familiarity is a major contributor to building trust. In other words, if team members know one another?either through face-to-face or virtual interactions?they have a greater chance to establish trust over time.
You can strengthen relationships and build familiarity with your team members by making time to:
Talk with them regularly by telephone and schedule face-to-face meetings whenever time and budgetary constraints allow.
Make the effort to attend social events (retirement parties, baby showers, promotion celebrations), even if that means joining ?virtually? by teleconference or videoconference.
Take time to talk about non-work matters whenever appropriate, both asking about and sharing information regarding topics such as families, hobbies, personal interests, etc.
Building trust in virtual teams and organizations can be difficult. The very nature of virtual work makes trust hard to come by and easy to lose. There are, however, some constants to keep in mind if you want to build trust, maintain trust or rebuild trust.
The keys to trust include:
Be reliable and honor your commitments
Be consistent in all that you do
Act with integrity, including respecting the right of privacy in others
Build on bonds of familiarity and nurture relationships you have established.
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Debra A. Dinnocenzo is a virtual workplace expert specializing in virtual leadership, virtual teams, telework, and work-life balance in the digital age. A dynamic speaker and highly praised author, Dinnocenzo speaks and writes widely on techniques for working and living wisely in the digital age. Dinnocenzo is the author of How to Lead From a Distance, How to Work Together From a Distance, 101 Tips for Telecommuters , Managing Telecommuters, Dot Calm: The Search for Sanity in a Wired World, and Working Too Much Can Make You Grumpy.
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